I don’t deny being guilty of this, neither can you, unless you’ve not used this expression before “that’s just me” or “That’s who I am”, some people go further to add “and there is nothing I/anyone can do about it.
Believe me, that statement no matter how sincere you are about it is self-deceit. For instance, someone complains about your handwriting or “language-factor” or disorganized locker and in defense you say “that is just me” LIE! That is not you! That can never be you until you conclude so.
There is and will always be a better you. You are neither a concluded project nor a finished product. We are all changing, growing and improving every day, why settle for an unfinished edition of yourself.
The desire to meet “the better you” every passing day, you can take conscious steps to get rid of the “factor”, the mannerism, the hot temper, the quick loss of concentration, the always bitter you… The difference between you and the person better than you is the steps to improve. There is a better you out there, take on the adventure to meet him/her.
Note: I am not asking you to change, we don’t need another Saint Peter, and neither do we need another Oludapo Tolulope ;). We need you in your uniqueness. I don’t want you to be like me, be a better you.
Make up your mind today, erase the expression “that is just me, and I don’t care what you think or that is just me and there is nothing you can do about it” from your life because if you don’t, you will forever be a drafted copy of your true identity.
CHANGE! GROW!! IMPROVE!!!
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Powerful. God bless you
Amen.Thank you for taking time to read and put up a comment
Great article bro, looks like it just gets better… cheers
Thanks ‘Bani. I’m encouraged
Dis is one issue I have with some people. Acceppting the status quo is terrible. It limits yur potentials. And also the baptism of I am ‘choleric’, ‘sanguine’ ……. (By psychoologists). Great read t.daps…..more grace
I totally agree with you Chiedu…Amen bro
Thank you so much for this piece. God bless bro.
I DESIRE TO MEET YOU MR. BETTER ME…#glory
I feel you…#GLORY
very motivating……..well written piece
(y) Thank you Pelumi for reading and leaving a comment. I deeply appreciate it
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I love how you brought out the truth from every word written here.keep it up.
Thank you ma
Nice piece…… Tolu
Thank you 🙂
Thank you for taking the time to visit my blog. Your post has given me food for thought.
wow Tolu!how did u manage 2 hide dis gift 4 so long? dis is 1daful.dere is definitely a word 4 me here.
God bless u and may He keep using u as a blessing to others.
🙂 I bless God He finally made me realise it. Thank you so much Lola and a big Amen
Wonderful. A friend of mine would always say, “don’t just be yourself, be a better version of urself”. Kudos my Bishop. this is wonderful!
Very true, this world is not meant for people that are not ready to keep living,keep improving. Thanks 😉
yeah… truth spoken….God increase you more and more
G8 piece… We shld aspire to b better individually n collectively…